Do's and Don'ts

Common Lifestyle Do's & Don'ts

Do’s

• Make agreements ahead of time about what you both are comfortable with.

• Encourage each other to try something new – like sleep with someone of a different ethnicity or body type.

• Play together to create closeness and trust.

• Learn to deal with your jealousy. Tips for this in Chapter 9 of "Welcome to the Swing Set"

• Be laid-back and easy-going. Don't let little things irritate you.

• Pick up new tricks and tips and show your partner.

• Have fun with it, after all that's why we call it play.

• Remember people grow in life, as well as in the lifestyle. Your rules, as a couple, may change but those are decisions made together, not on the fly by one of you.

Don'ts

• Join the lifestyle to make your partner happy. If you’re not at least intrigued by the idea of the lifestyle, it’s not for you.

• Expect your partner meant to make a mistake maliciously.

• Join the lifestyle to save a marriage! That works about as well as having a baby to save a marriage.
  

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