Common Lifestyle Do's & Don'ts
Do’s
Make agreements ahead of time about what you both are comfortable with.
Encourage each other to try something new – like sleep with someone of a different ethnicity or body type.
Play together to create closeness and trust.
Learn to deal with your jealousy. Tips for this in Chapter 9 of "Welcome to the Swing Set"
Be laid-back and easy-going. Don't let little things irritate you.
Pick up new tricks and tips and show your partner.
Have fun with it, after all that's why we call it play.
Remember people grow in life, as well as in the lifestyle. Your rules, as a couple, may change but those are decisions made together, not on the fly by one of you.
Don'ts
Join the lifestyle to make your partner happy. If you’re not at least intrigued by the idea of the lifestyle, it’s not for you.
Expect your partner meant to make a mistake maliciously.
Join the lifestyle to save a marriage! That works about as well as having a baby to save a marriage.
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